These Brothers of Mine
“For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat; I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me….whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.”
-Matthew 25: 35-36, 40
Listening to Anna Gant, Emily Anderson and Becca Crist in chapel a few weeks ago, I was filled with admiration for the passion that took these girls to Washington D.C. to join the AIDS Walk. I often feel compassion and a desire to help alleviate the pain that overwhelms the world, but I have rarely acted on my convictions.
I have no end of excuses for myself. I am too busy. I don’t have time. I don’t have enough money to make a significant contribution. I haven’t found the right opportunity to help. But these excuses did not keep Anna, Emily and Becca from acting. They found the time, they found the opportunity, and they made a significant contribution. How could this story fail to inspire?
The thought of anyone finding offense in what these girls said had never crossed my mind. But, while talking to people after chapel, I realized that I had assumed far too much. Some people were outspoken in their objection to the AIDS walk.
Why? Because the AIDS walk was “for gays.” Though there are many “innocent” AIDS victims, a walk specifically to benefit gay AIDS victims is an insult. Gay AIDS victims deserve what they are getting because it is the logical outcome of their immoral behavior. Why should we support them?
At first, I was at a loss as to what to say in response to this. I had thought that I was relatively “on the same page” as these people, but I was not even in their book. I couldn’t begin to say anything that would help them understand me, because we were operating under such different assumptions. I felt that I was speaking a foreign language, and the words that I heard were no more coherent.
The question I was not able to answer has not left me.What is the justification for helping gay victims? This is where I ask myself: why should we help anybody? Why should we love anyone or act on that love?
The answer is simple. Because He first loved us, and died in an act of love we will never be able to fathom. Do we imagine that because we are rich enough, because we have “good” parents who made us go to Sunday school and who now pay for our Christian education, we are in any way better than people who have not been so blessed? Can we claim our morality, our “good behavior,” for ourselves, and say with a smile that we would be the people we are today without the advantages had from birth? Can we look on any people, whom the Lord Himself has looked on with unbearable love, and say that they do not deserve our time, our money, and all our hearts?
This is not a matter of Gay’s Rights. It’s not a question of whether being gay is "okay." This is a matter of helping the sick.
Christ claims as His brothers the hungry, the thirsty, the naked, and the sick. He tells us that anything we do for these, we have done for Him. Does Christ claim as His brother the gay AIDS victim? I believe that He does. I believe that when Anna, Emily and Becca joined the AIDS walk, they walked side by side with Christ.
- Hannah Cranston